My Wife

I manifest my wife being a woman of color.

I manifest that she desires me being her husband instead of a man she settles for. Knowing she has trusted me with her mind, body and soul while leading her through the challenges of life.

I manifest that she allows herself to be open and vulnerable so she can receive and embrace all of me and all of my love.

I manifest that she holds the same safe space for me that I’ll hold for her.

I manifest she possesses emotional intelligence, good communication skills and healthy boundaries.

I manifest she’s driven, intelligent, ambitious, nurturing, and supportive.

I manifest that she doesn’t have children and wants to be a mother.

I manifest that she understands that I am not perfect, but she respects me and love that I am putting in the effort. She embraces the man I am instead of the man she wants me to be.

I manifest that her intension is pure instead of being malicious or manipulating.

I manifest that she carries confidence, class and strides in her full essence of femininity.

I manifest that she loves romance and intimacy. I manifest that she doesn’t view my boundaries as a sense of control nor weakness.

Our Marriage

As a unit, I want us to have our own independence but a united force.

I manifest we make time and space for each other mental and emotional health. I want us to be able to communicate effectively when we have disagreements. That we listen to understand and come up with solutions instead of listening to rebuttal.

I manifest we respect each other thoughts, beliefs, opinions and understand we are allowed to have them. I manifest that we do not belittle for what the other do not know but instead educate.

I manifest we practice empathy, compassion during a time of hardship.

I manifest that we enjoy our marriage through dates, vacations, celebrations and meaningful gifts.

I manifest that our foundation is so solid that people words, opinions, ideas, and beliefs doesn’t make a dent.